FACTS

"The only way that we can live, is to grow.
  The only way that we can grow is if we change.
  The only way we can change is if we learn.
  The only way we can learn is if we are exposed.
  And the only way that we can become exposed is if we throw ourselves out in the open.
                                        Do it. Throw yourself."


Some dreams or goals seem much too large to be achievable; it’s in our nature to stop pursuing it after our initial excitement wears off. Even positive change will feel initially frightening, embrace the feeling and don’t give up.

LAW OF NATURE

Thé Moral Lâw Is Thé Lâw Of Natüré. Nobody Cãn Cheat Nature And Get Awày With Ít. Natüré Will Always Have Thé Last Wõrd. After Thé Violation And Thé Enjóyment Resultíng From It Thé Punishment Will Surely Follôw In à Manner And Àt A Tímê One may Not Expect. It Is Therefõre Foolísh Tó Enjoy Todãy Only Tô Suffer For Ít Tomorrow

Credit Goes To: Daniel A. Celestine

ATTAIN THE HEIGHTS OF POWER

Always make those above you feel comfortably superior. In your desire to please and impress them, do not go too far in displaying your talents or you might accomplish the opposite, Inspire fear and insecurity. Make your masters appear more brilliant than they are and you will attain the heights of power.

Credit goes to : Robert Greene

TGIF

SHOW COMPASSION

Compassion is more than just a feeling. Showing compassion means that we not only notice what others are going through but are moved to help them.

Even though we were created to be compassionate, we are imperfect and tend to be selfish. Sometimes it may not be easy for us to decide whether to help other people or to focus on ourselves. It is always good to show compassion. Here are few reasons why we need to show compassion:

1. Mental-health experts say that showing compassion can improve our health and our relationships with others
2. When you help those who are suffering, you will feel happier, more hopeful, less lonely, and less negative.
3. Compassion will help us to be better parents, marriage mates, and friends.
4. People who show compassion to others usually receive help when they need it.

There are many ways to show compassion. Here are few ways:

1. Be considerate
   Be equally considerate to friends, family and strangers. Listen fully without judgment, and give each person your full attention (no texting, no phone calls, no seeming to be bored!) – use direct eye contact and keep your ears open to their needs.
   
   
   
2. Be affectionate
   Sometimes all people really need is a loving touch, a sincere hug, or a warm smile. Simple gestures of affection, even a pat on the hand, help ease strain and show your genuine compassion.
   
   
   
3. Communicate in a warm way
   Let your genuine interest in helping the other person show through heartfelt communication. You can make a world of difference by simply listening and talking in a warm, patient manner. Use encouraging vocabulary, be optimistic and concentrate on showing complete understanding.
   
   
   
4. Show empathy
   Empathy is showing that you understand another’s feelings or emotions; you identify with the situation and care enough to place yourself in another’s shoes. “I understand” is a great way to communicate this.
   
   
   
5. Be selfless
   To help someone else you have to take your own needs out of the equation. Put your focus and energy on the other person, be selfless, and limit any distractions or personal goals as long as you are committed to the needs of another. 
   
   
   
6. Practice acts of kindness
   Go out of your way to be kind.  You can treat someone to small things like a new book, frozen yogurt, or just a laugh to brighten even the toughest of days.  You can also volunteer your time, offering to baby sit, run errands, etc. for anyone with a lot of weight on their shoulders.
   
   
   
7. Send a meaningful message
   Send compassionate feelings via a simple text message to someone you care about.  Just tell them you were thinking of them and you love them.  A simple way to show they matter to you.
   
   
   
8. Show unconditional love
   This is a total approach towards showing compassion in every area of life.  Don’t just hear, but listen without judgment, be extremely present in the conversation, give sound advice, offer your hugs and love freely. Be understanding and above all, love unconditionally. 

         

POSITIVE THINKING

Positive thinking has a great effect on us as humans. Negative thinking affects us; they have proven many times to narrow our focus and scope of work. It’s one of the most powerful ways to shut our minds off to opportunities or new ideas. Although negative thinking are programmed into our brains to help us survive. For example, if we are to come across dangerous animal in the wild, the negative thinking of fear and anxiety would narrow our focus so that all we could think about was not becoming that animal’s dinner. A positive person anticipates happiness, health and success, and believes he or she can overcome any obstacle and difficulty. Positive thinking is not a concept that everyone believes and follows. Some, consider it as nonsense, and scoff at people who follow it. However, there is a growing number of people, who accept positive thinking as a fact, and believe in its effectiveness.

With a positive attitude we experience pleasant and happy feelings. This brings brightness to the eyes, more energy, and happiness. Our whole being broadcasts good will, happiness and success. Even our health is affected in a beneficial way. We walk tall, our voice is more powerful, and our body language shows the way we feel.

ALWAYS THINK POSITIVE AND HAVE A POSITIVE ATTITUDE

Credit Goes to: Nwabuko Integrity Chidiebube

FACE YOUR FEARS

The fact that there is a tendency to be choked by food does not mean we should not eat at all or the fact that we may have a nightmare does not mean we should not sleep at all. Don't close your eyes because there are bad people around you, otherwise you will miss the chance to find good people. Apart from the possibility of seeing the good people that may come your way, how would you even see and save yourself from the bad people if you close your eyes? Don't let your painful experience with bad people rob you of possible encounter with good people. Don't Be like the proverbial ostrich that burries its head in sand in an attempt to escape from reality. Face your lingering fears with lots of faith. There will always be good peope to find in this world. In any case, even if you think there are no good people around you, be the good person another person can find. Be the change you want to see. Are you single looking for a good person to marry? The question to ask yourself is "am I a good person?" Be self-actualized.


CREDIT GOES TO: AFRICAN PROVERB 

WISDOM IS WEALTH

It is not that wisdom provides wealth. But that wisdom itself is wealth. So the good question is what is wealth? According to business dictionary, wealth is the tangible or intangible thing that makes a person, family, or group better off. Notice the words 'intangible' and 'better off' in the definition . The inclusion of "intangible" indicates that wealth means more than having a lot of money or possession. In fact, you can have a lot of assets and not be wealthy. This is because to be truly wealthy, you must be "better off". Some people are better off poor than rich because in their riches, they are greedy, callous, selfish and restless, all of which they were not when they were poor. Thus, the crucial question to ask in determining whether or not you're wealthy is: "am I better off?". If you gain the whole world and lose your soul , you are of all people the most pitiable! Wisdom is wealth because with any amount of wisdom, you are always better off. Wisdom can protect riches but riches cannot protect wisdom. Seek wisdom first, because wisdom is the principal thing in life. With wisdom you'll make the most of life. Be wise!


CREDIT GOES TO: AFRICAN PROVERB

TIME

There is a time and season for everything. There
is a time to sow and harvest. And there is a time
to show ourselves and a time to hide. Some
people are so desperate for popularity to the
point that they show up at every place and
event. Then sooner people become tired of
seeing them. So eventually they end up losing
respect. And when you lose respect you also
lose relevance. To lose relevance is to be no
more wanted. You see, even when you admire
someone and you're trying to win the person's
attention there's a way to go about it so that you
don't come across as offensive or annoying to
that person. The difference between stalking and
love pursuit lies mainly in the frequency. Stalkers
are insecure. So they end up bombarding the
person with calls, emails and visit. They have no
respect for privacy. Stalkers are also insensitive
people. All they care about is what they want.
But that's not how it works. Take it easy. Be
moderate!
Credit goes to: AFRICAN PROVERB

FOCUS

As you go after your goals in life make sure you focus, don’t be afraid to do something just because you are scared of what people are going to say about you. People will judge you no matter what. Forget about their judging, focus on your goals. Those who judge you will later come to you for help. So focus and go after your goals. The more you focus on what people will say about you, the more you lose focus on your goals. So Forget about what people say and focus.

TGIF

Credit Goes to: Josephine Nkenta

10 WONDERFUL QUOTES FROM TGIF TO WELCOME YOU INTO 2017

10 WONDERFUL QUOTES FROM TGIF TO WELCOME YOU INTO 2017

Just know, when you truly want success, you’ll never give up on it. No matter how bad the situation may get. Accept responsibility for your life. Know that it is you who will get you where you want to go, no one else. One of the most important keys to Success is having the discipline to do what you know you should do, even when you don’t feel like doing it. Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, or worn. It is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace & gratitude. Go where you are celebrated – not tolerated. If they can’t see the real value of you, it’s time for a new start. When you say “It’s hard”, it actually means “I’m not strong enough to fight for it”. Stop saying its hard. Think positive Life has two rules: #1 Never quit #2 Always remember rule # 1. Love what you have. Need what you want. Accept what you receive. Give what you can. Always remember, what goes around, comes around. Walk away from anything or anyone who takes away from your joy. Life is too short to put up with fools. Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.

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